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\"\"<\/a>Throughout this year, several bloggers will engage in a conversation here and on their blogs \u2014 asking questions of each other and responding. Others are absolutely welcome to join the conversation, as well. Learn more about the ladies of Blogversation 2012.<\/a><\/em>
\n\"\"<\/a>Today\u2019s question comes from Lesley Ware, www.thecreativecookie.net<\/a>.
\nOn Twitter, Lesley is @creativecookie<\/a>.
\nHow do you deal with the haters?<\/strong>
\nI\u2019ve been encountering a handful of people who I\u2019m going to unfortunately have to describe as \u2018haters\u2019.\u00a0 According to the Urban Dictionary a hater is:<\/p>\n

A<\/em> person that simply cannot be happy for another person’s success. So rather than be happy they make a point of exposing a flaw in that person<\/em>.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Hating is different from jealousy because it\u2019s usually involves spreading negative energy around a person\u2019s accomplishments. In essence, haters do not want to be the person that they are hating on.
\nP. Diddy was the first rapper that I remember use this term in one of his songs around the late ’90s. I was perplexed at the time by the notion of hating, Why would someone hate<\/em>? What is gained by hating? <\/em>
\nAfter being on the receiving end of some recent \u201chaterism\u201d I totally get were Diddy was coming from when he sang, “You can hate me now, but I won’t stop, You can hate me now, but I won’t stop now…”
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\nOn that note, how do you deal with the haters in your professional or personal life? Do you love them, tune them out, or simply keep making moves? Where do you see them in the spectrum — are they insecure or could they be the ultimate fan?<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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