{"id":3084,"date":"2011-04-02T18:13:22","date_gmt":"2011-04-02T22:13:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.communify.me\/newvinegrowing\/?p=3084"},"modified":"2019-06-07T13:41:03","modified_gmt":"2019-06-07T17:41:03","slug":"in-sickness-and-in-health","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.communify.me\/newvinegrowing\/in-sickness-and-in-health\/","title":{"rendered":"In sickness and in health"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been struck by how many people have trial by fire stories from a big journey &#8212; often at the very outset of the trip.<br \/>\nTwo couples we know had all their belongings stolen at the start of long international treks, and in the book I&#8217;m reading, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/1891053019\/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=newvigrowi-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1891053019\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Letters from New Orleans<\/a>, the author&#8217;s girlfriend has her car stolen almost immediately after moving to NOLA.<br \/>\nSo I suppose I shouldn&#8217;t be surprised that our little adventure has kicked off with me picking up some rotten bug and getting probably as ill as I&#8217;ve been in my life. Trust me, you don&#8217;t want details, but I can tell you I&#8217;ve lost close to 10 pounds and today I&#8217;ve eaten a piece of toast.<br \/>\nThere&#8217;s a cruel irony to a girl who loves to eat and drink coming to a city that does both exceptionally well, and being sidelined for a week. And we spent our first week here in a lovely hotel in the French Quarter, which I imagined would be our home base for enjoying live music every night at the many clubs nearby &#8212; but instead, I didn&#8217;t feel up to going out.<br \/>\nJohn&#8217;s birthday was Tuesday. I told him I wouldn&#8217;t be offended at all if he wanted to go out with friends, but he sweetly ordered dinner delivered and we watched 30 Rock on Netflix. Not the rockin&#8217; celebration I expected, but there&#8217;s time for a do over.<br \/>\nNew Orleans has already taught me lessons:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/staging.communify.me\/newvinegrowing\/2009\/04\/24\/new-orleans-jazz-fest-starts-today\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">I didn&#8217;t expect to like Jazz Fest<\/a> but realized I was wrong, and that I needed to be more open to trying things or I might miss other good experiences.<\/li>\n<li>Last year my purse was stolen the last night of our Jazz Fest visit, and though it was a hassle, <a href=\"https:\/\/staging.communify.me\/newvinegrowing\/2010\/11\/30\/i-am-thankful-for-things-that-could-have-been-worse\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">it could have been worse<\/a>. I wasn&#8217;t hurt, I wasn&#8217;t threatened, the thief slipped it off my chair without anyone in our group noticing. Afterward, the kindness I received from strangers reassured me that many people are good even if some are predators.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>What is NOLA teaching me now?<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Much as after thieves took my purse, people have been so kind. <a href=\"https:\/\/staging.communify.me\/newvinegrowing\/2010\/07\/11\/nurturing-my-relationship-skills\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Keith Ferrazzi&#8217;s Relationship Masters Academy<\/a> teaches that one of the ways we really connect as human beings is vulnerability &#8212; letting down our guard enough to experience us as real, not the game face we wear as a mask. When I&#8217;ve dragged my frail self into public, I&#8217;ve pretty much had to let my guard down, and in return have had people take nice care of me.<\/li>\n<li>There&#8217;s more to the city than endless oysters and cocktails. As I laid on the sofabed in our hotel room, French doors opening onto a lovely, lush courtyard, I still felt lucky. If I had to get sick, it&#8217;s a beautiful place to be laid out.<\/li>\n<li>Perhaps most importantly, this week has rebooted my pace of life. I arrived a fast-moving, type-A New Yorker with ambitious plans for making the most of my time here &#8212; places I&#8217;d go, people I&#8217;d meet, tasks I&#8217;d accomplish. This week, I had to release all of that. I did work remotely, because thankfully on email no one can see how pathetic you look, but even that I did all nested into the sofabed with loads of pillows, drinking ginger tea. I&#8217;ve had no choice but to ease up.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>So with one full week in New Orleans behind us, I thankfully enjoyed some food, drink and music our first weekend, then I got a hard reboot.<br \/>\nNow what&#8217;s next?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been struck by how many people have trial by fire stories from a big journey &#8212; often at the very outset of the trip. 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