{"id":1165,"date":"2009-11-10T08:45:59","date_gmt":"2009-11-10T12:45:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.communify.me\/newvinegrowing\/?p=1165"},"modified":"2019-06-07T13:42:35","modified_gmt":"2019-06-07T17:42:35","slug":"day-16-saying-thank-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.communify.me\/newvinegrowing\/day-16-saying-thank-you\/","title":{"rendered":"Day 16: Saying thank you in writing"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Leading up to Thanksgiving, each day I will blog about what I\u2019m doing to be more grateful. I invite you to join me, and to share your thoughts, observations, suggestions and ideas.<\/em><br \/>\n<strong>Day 16: Remember when your parents would prompt you with &#8220;What do you say? Say thank you.&#8221;<\/strong><br \/>\nMy mom was the thank you note enforcer. Writing them was non negotiable.<br \/>\nWhen I graduated from high school, Mom took custody of my graduation presents. Only after I had written a thank you note could I get possession of each gift.<br \/>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1168\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1168\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.crane.com\/social\/pdfs\/TheArtofSayingThanks.pdf\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1168\" title=\"Crane thank you\" src=\"https:\/\/staging.communify.me\/newvinegrowing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/11\/crane-thank-you.jpg?w=300\" alt=\"Crane thank you\" width=\"300\" height=\"183\" srcset=\"https:\/\/staging.communify.me\/newvinegrowing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/11\/crane-thank-you.jpg 413w, https:\/\/staging.communify.me\/newvinegrowing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/11\/crane-thank-you-300x184.jpg 300w, https:\/\/staging.communify.me\/newvinegrowing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/11\/crane-thank-you-370x227.jpg 370w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1168\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Crane doesn&#39;t just make lovely thank you notes -- they also offer a PDF with tips on writing thank you notes. Click here to read it.<\/figcaption><\/figure><br \/>\nSo I admit to having a strong bias but I believe in the power of the thank you note &#8212; especially of the hand written and mailed variety.<br \/>\nIt seems obvious to me that if someone has done something I&#8217;m grateful for, it&#8217;s a wonderful thing to say so and to say thank you. It&#8217;s one thing to make a note in my gratitude journal, which is good for my heart, but what if I can make the other person feel good, too?<br \/>\nUsually thank you notes are transaction specific &#8212; thanks for the gift, for inviting us to the party, for the job interview.<br \/>\nBut this week I&#8217;m writing thank you notes for a variety of things and people I&#8217;m grateful for, even if my gratitude is big and broad or if the inspiring act was long ago.<br \/>\nIf you stumble for the right words when you&#8217;re writing thank yous, the good folks at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.writeexpress.com\/thank-you.htm?source=adwords+thank+you+letters&amp;gclid=CObLgN-4_50CFU1M5QodETPJqg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Write Express<\/a> offer some pointers &#8212; these are just a few, you&#8217;ll find more on their site:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Stick to the point.<\/li>\n<li>Be sincere&#8211;most people can sense when you aren&#8217;t being honest.<\/li>\n<li>Be specific and include details from the event. Make your letter stand out.<\/li>\n<li>Reaffirm your gratitude or restate the compliment.<\/li>\n<li>Close with either an expression of thanks or an indication of your intention to continue contact.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Just to get warmed up a little:<br \/>\nJim Wojcik, thank you for all your wisdom and patience not only as our college newspaper adviser but also as my job placement expert and frequent career therapist. I&#8217;m not sure where I&#8217;d be professionally without you and I will be forever grateful.<br \/>\nJulie Peterson, thank you for hiring me to be a health writer at the University of Michigan News Service when I&#8217;d never been a medical writer in my life. You trusted me to figure it out on the job. Thank you for that chance and for showing such confidence in me.<br \/>\nKaren Joseph (now Johnson), thanks for being my life raft of a roommate at one of the lowest points in my life. You probably didn&#8217;t know what you were signing on for when you rented my spare bedroom but I&#8217;m grateful for the kindness and support you showed me.<br \/>\nCecil Shepherd, thank you for welcoming me into the University of Michigan family in New York City. You probably more than any other person made New York seem doable for a girl who&#8217;d never moved away from her home state. Your encouragement and enthusiasm made it so much less intimidating and I&#8217;m grateful.<br \/>\nThis week I&#8217;ll be doing some proper thank yous, with pen and paper like Mom taught me, in addition to some social media versions on Facebook and Twitter, too.<br \/>\n<strong>Who deserves a thank you note from you? It doesn&#8217;t have to be big life-changing events &#8212; what about the colleague who&#8217;s helped you or the neighbor who always waters the plants and gets your mail when you&#8217;re on vacation? Or maybe it is big stuff: the teacher who inspired you or the friend you couldn&#8217;t imagine life without?<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\n<a name=\"fb_share\" href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php\">Share<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My mom was the thank you note enforcer. Writing them was non negotiable.<br \/>\nWhen I graduated from high school, Mom took custody of my graduation presents. 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