{"id":1129,"date":"2009-11-06T08:45:49","date_gmt":"2009-11-06T12:45:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.communify.me\/newvinegrowing\/?p=1129"},"modified":"2019-06-07T13:42:36","modified_gmt":"2019-06-07T17:42:36","slug":"day-12-too-much-to-do-not-enough-time-to-do-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.communify.me\/newvinegrowing\/day-12-too-much-to-do-not-enough-time-to-do-it\/","title":{"rendered":"Day 12: Too much to do, not enough time to do it"},"content":{"rendered":"

Leading up to Thanksgiving, each day I will blog about what I\u2019m doing to be more grateful. I invite you to join me, and to share your thoughts, observations, suggestions and ideas.<\/em>
\nDay 12: Making time to give thanks<\/strong>
\nAll this week, I have been writing about the many reasons I’m not as grateful as I should be: wanting what I don\u2019t have<\/a>, being frustrated by life\u2019s annoyances<\/a>, regret<\/a>, anger at other people<\/a>.
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Are you racing against time like a sprinter?<\/figcaption><\/figure>
\nThere’s yet another reason that’s perhaps less toxic but in some ways more insidious: lack of time.
\nI’ve noticed that the socially appropriate way to answer when someone asks how you’re doing is not necessarily “fine,” but instead “busy.” Maybe you add a flourish like “crazy busy” or “swamped.”
\nIf we’re all busy racing around, even the best intentioned of us can find the week has slipped away without getting to the gym or making dinner at home. Writing in my gratitude journal every day takes time and maybe at the end of the day, I realize I haven’t done it and I just want to go to sleep.
\nHere are two ways to cope with lack of time:
\n1. Do less<\/strong>
\nYou’re already skeptical, aren’t you? You’re busy at work, you’ve got obligations at home, maybe the kids need to be shuttled to lessons, you’ve got social plans if you’re lucky, and you can’t see how you could possibly do less.
\nOne of my favorite blogs, Zen Habits, has suggestions on just that.<\/p>\n

It may seem paradoxical that Do Less can mean you\u2019re more productive \u2014 and if you define \u201cproductive\u201d as meaning \u201cget more done\u201d or \u201cdo more\u201d, then no, Do Less won\u2019t lead to that kind of productivity.
\nBut if instead you define \u201cproductivity\u201d as a means of making the most of your actions, of the time you spend working (or doing anything), of being as effective as possible, then Do Less is the best way to be productive.
\nConsider: I can work all day in a flurry of frenetic activity, only to get a little done, especially when it comes to lasting achievement. Or I can do just a couple things that take an hour, but those are key actions that will lead to real achievement. In the second example, you did less, but the time you spent counted for more.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

The post goes on to give specifics about how to do less, including cutting back on buying, busy work, over managing and over parenting and complaining. Check it out here.<\/a>
\nI have tried to do less this year, cutting out some activities I was doing out of obligation and saying yes less cautiously. Still, it’s a work in progress, so #2 is still pretty helpful.
\n2. Make use of small chunks of time<\/strong>
\nKeith Ferrazzi<\/a>, whose book Who’s Got Your Back I pimp regularly, has a helpful free e-mail newsletter. He provides practical tips on improving your relationships, including this one:<\/p>\n

Use your taxi time.<\/strong> We all have wasted time slots; the grocery store line is another. They\u2019re wasted because we\u2019re not prepared to use them.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

For me, this has meant spending time on the subway writing in my gratitude journal. It could just as easily mean thinking about the reasons I’m grateful while I blowdry my hair or while I’m waiting for a meeting to start.
\nDoes being too busy get in the way of taking time to be grateful? If so, how do you deal with that?<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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